Friday, December 26, 2014

Album comparison review at 2 months of release. 杨丞琳《双丞戏》, 梁文音《漫情歌》

After listening to 杨丞琳《双丞戏》, and 梁文音《漫情歌》, I felt that a singer with a higher prestige still wins. Of course having a record company that could produce more MV with a great storyline helps boost song retention and playback, but I pity a little pitiful for 梁文音.
Although she used 同名专辑 technique to get more publicity for her 主打歌《漫情歌》, it didn't work well with me. In contrast, the overarching story of having two personalities worked allowed 3 songs 《点水》、《失忆的金鱼》、《其实我们值得幸福》to blossom, even though none was referenced earlier. In contrast, 梁文音 had only 3 songs that pleased me, barely passing my mark for an album worth listening to, and a disappointment from her previous 《黄色夹克》, which was refreshing, new, thematic, rather than going back to a typical Mando-pop genre.
To make it worse, 《分手后不要做朋友》was released as early as the start of this year, a full 3/4 of a year before this album was released! Though it got the fans excited, the two previewed songs that followed, 《每一次恋爱》,《爱其实很残忍》were about all the best the album can offer.
After finishing with her trilogy album, I am pleased 杨丞琳 came up with a "bonus" album that somewhat follows through the positiveness of the last album《天使之翼》. Although 2 songs were previewed - 《我想爱》,《下个转弯是你吗》, the trilogy of songs mentioned earlier helped to further show the essence of the album and stands it out from the market, especially with 蔡依林 albums,and 林俊杰,周杰伦 albums which are just released among others.
Of course, there are a few more songs in 杨丞琳 album which I like,《喜剧收场》is a good place to start, though there is no need to stop through the whole album. As it is an early start, but I hope more effort (which may not be possible due to money) could be spent on 梁文音, so that rather catchy songs 《漫情歌》、《寂寞之光》、《住在心里的过客》、《我们会再见》 、《鲁凯的姑娘》are not wasted. As evidenced from this statement, a great boost can propel it back to the times of 《爱的诗篇》, her first.

Saturday, December 20, 2014

20 Dec 2014

Simply by helping to translate 'wet tissue' to “湿纸巾”, to mandarin for a conversation between a customer and a shop keeper, I got a thanks and a kind deed can be done so easily.

#nationofkindness #ellen #bekindtooneanother

Wednesday, December 17, 2014

17 Dec 2014

Helped an aunty shop for clothes for his son! A fun experience rekindling the kampung spirit! Never be afraid to ask for help!

Tuesday, December 16, 2014

16 Dec 2014

Another great service experienced at a restaurant! Another compliment letter sent out to the lady who deserved it.

#nationofkindness #ellen #bekindtooneanother

Sunday, December 7, 2014

点歌 Olivia Ong《等等》

这首歌点给周五让我开心的那一个人。
对不起我现在无法接受你的礼物,因为那是一种承诺。请给我一些时间。

All I wish is for another's voice to be in unison with mine.

Thursday, December 4, 2014

2 Dec 2014

偶然的巧遇 无意间的缘分
两个不容碰撞星球
突然轨道交错
旧的不去 新的不来
原来缘分就是擦肩而过
Both first batch to own the newly-released Xiaomi phones at different times. And only a special few of mine would drop everything and meet up impromptu. You said all the things I always wanted my ideal friend to say. Most of all, my bad habits didn't show - I didn't care about wins for once.
Let today be the start to the best!
Just one sorry that I put it up this evening!
Thanks for being there for me, 雨过天晴了!KianleongShiu Heng,JaredElizabeth.
— 和 Kazuki Chia 一起 · 觉得荣幸

All I wish is for another's voice to be in unison with mine.

Sunday, November 30, 2014

30 Nov 2014

Right in front of my eyes, a lady gave up her seat to a pregnant woman, accompanied by her husband, yesterday. Yet, there was no sound of gratitude. The worst part? The couple did not even acknowledge the presence of the kind woman.
Please, if your mouth is full, smile. If your face muscles are not under your control, nod your head. If your situation is that bad, then please, at least look at the person - acknowledge them!

Monday, November 24, 2014

杨丞琳《点水》

杨丞琳新专辑里《双丞戏》主打歌《点水》MV,你看了吗?
小弟觉得有一点复杂,还没真正了解背后的含义。包括不了解 MV 里的女主角为了男友,选择和他在一起,放弃环游世界,怎么也算错?我在网上问了问,谢谢你们的回复。其中一个人的回答非常明确。
“只是男生不了解女生,是喜欢,不是爱。”
所以,如果你被……“忽略”了,那不要太伤心,因为他只不过喜欢你而已,而不是爱你。《点水》送给你——即将找到真爱的你!

24 Nov 2014

A small kid lost his balance on the train, and I supported him, much to his mother's relief. Then, I gave up my seat to allow them to sit together. A simple thanks and smile made my day.

Saturday, November 22, 2014

22 Nov 2014

My friend, who works in army, got a free taxi ride home. The most commendable part was the driver said "Thank you for serving the nation".

This is voluntary, not required, and most of all, really commendable. This post is not to ask everyone to give freebies - though it would be nice - but these occasional perks do help to keep this nation's heart beating.

#nationofkindness #ellen #bekindtooneanother

Tuesday, November 18, 2014

18 Nov 2014

In the sudden rain yesterday, I was smiling at the wonder of the serenity of the weather. Then, a stranger smiled back at me. It's a long time since I smiled at strangers, and have others warm up my hearts in the cold weather. After all, we are all neighbours!
Another call out to join me in making the world a kinder place, and help the needy at the same time!

Monday, November 17, 2014

17 Nov 2014

Going to partner with this worthy cause as part of my kindness movement! Glad to know some corporates are also kind enough to be part of it!

You can also join the rest of Singapore, by hashtagging #nationofkindness, and making that post public!

#ellen #bekindtooneanother

Friday, November 7, 2014

7 Nov 2014

The other day during lecture, when the lecturer ends off lesson by opening up the floor to the question, one person asks this after the lecturer just said "There is no stupid questions. There is no stupid answers."

"Is there any source based questions in the final exam?"

I felt it was a question less asked, as varsity-level examinations set one liner "straight forward" questions for arts modules requiring the candidates to write essays.

I was appalled when the lady in front of me started typing on twitter demeaning and ridiculing the person virtually. Something along the lines of "Now still got people ask this kind of question." Of course, harsher words are censored out, including her referring to this as a stupid questions - something the lecturer just said.

I hope she does not mean anything else other than to increase her hits, otherwise, it would really be challenging to change Singaporeans' mindset.

#ellen #bekindtooneanother

Wednesday, October 29, 2014

29 Oct 2014

Am quite happy I wrote a memo of thanks after a survey, like I said I would at an earlier post. It really isn't easy crafting then collating the results and deciphering what to do with the data.

#ellen #bekindtooneanother

Thursday, October 23, 2014

23 Oct 2014

一则感人的故事,收入在垃圾相似的外表,而里面,令人暖心。我很蠢,不懂珍惜,违反自己的原则,打破自己的承诺。你再无奈也坚持,付出有增无减,感动每一刻。去哪里找到这么要好的一位好朋友?
心里十分愧疚,唯有把这首歌点给你。
S.H.E. 《心还是热的》
希望你知道我说的人是你。

Saturday, October 18, 2014

18 Oct 2014

Helped a pair of people with directions. Simple and normal thing right? I only realised how important my role is when they couldn't decide if they want to get off at the next bus stop or another one that does not require them to cross an overhead bridge. (By stopping at the first stop, they need to do so.) Magical thing is I don't know how my gloomy face was smiling so broadly as I watched the pair walk away.

Never again will I belittle such a small act of kindness and let that be an excuse not to be nice to others.
#bekindtooneanother #ellen

Wednesday, October 15, 2014

15 Oct 2014

When people thank us for our efforts, I feel heartened. However, we should reflect how many times do we write a simple thanks for everything - not to the person, but on a piece of survey paper.

Personally, I don't.

I only do if something good happens, and I'll write a complimentary letter to the organisation, but no, not every time for every small thing.

Join me as we make this society happier.

#bekindtooneanother #ellen

Wednesday, October 8, 2014

6 October 2014

At last, I managed to find someone to give my seat to on the MRT. For some of the aged who never can find a seat on the MRT, it felt as if I were grabbing seats so that I could reserve it for them by readily standing up when they board. This aged man thanked me the other day, and I thought why not make it better?

"You are welcome, but this seat is (already) for you." I said. This is what the gracious movement is trying to say, and this is what I did to make the experience more pleasant. I hope my act did inspire those around us that day. No matter whether you give up seats, don't take seats, or more towards the extreme by snatching seats for others, or trying to make the atmosphere more pleasant, it is a step forward to helping those in real need.

#ellen #bekindtooneanother

8 Oct 2014

One would normally associate those big, beefy guys in the gym to come off as unapproachable people. But today, one of these people thanked me politely, sincerely with a smile when I wiped off the bench for him to use (after me).

I guess it's just the tension they are feeling within themselves. Goes to show that there are nice people out there regardless of their first impressions. And this person has inspired me to go places to discover acts of kindness!

#ellen #bekindtooneanother.

Monday, October 6, 2014

5 October 2014

Whatever I don't know I would have wanted to ask you, I'll save it for the next person who could treat me better than you did. It will be part of the series that will replace my memories with you.

Actually, why am I still giving you concessions now? The stark experience of not replying my messages even now should more than remind me of how you treated me in the past.

All I wish is for another's voice to be in unison with mine.

Monday, September 29, 2014

Singapore OK... or Not? Episode 8: Rethinking the Relevance of Hawker Centre Renovations

There are a lot more comments on the original online article. I shall stop posting to national newspapers because of self-censorship. Hence, at a time when I thought this sector will be over, it's back and probably will be more often written about.

Rethinking the Relevance of Hawker Centre Renovations

After the hawker centre had been upgraded in Aljunied Crescent, Tan Chek Wee wrote an article to TODAY on 26 September 2014. In his article “Stop unnecessary hawker centre renovations”, he highlights concerns about the lower-income group’s affordability in buying food.

Likewise, the hawker centre at block 117 Aljunied Avenue 2 has been renovated a few times, including once in November 2005. The latest improvement was completed on 15 August 2014. With every upgrade comes a new paint coat and several additions. This time, specialised pipes used to reduce the smoke produced inevitably via cooking have been installed among others. Instead of listing the differences between the before and after make-up of the highly used food centre, I would like to instead focus on the relative importance of such additions to hawker centres.

These specialised pipes are huge and suck up the smoke produced inevitably via cooking. With a great number of hawker stalls, this seems to be a relevant change aimed to improve the quality of dining there. Ideally, people can dine in a better environment with less smoky air. However, how severe is the air quality in that particular hawker centre during peak hours? Personally, the place gives me a clean and refreshing feel each time I step there to browse my options for lunch. I believe those who frequent that place would have a better picture.

The structure of the hawker centre also has a high roof. This greatly facilitates the movement of air around the place and readily ferries smoke out of the hawker centre, with fresh air taking its place. Contrast it with certain hawker centres with a low roof slightly higher than the ceiling of an average HDB flat. If you compare the hawker centre at Aljunied Avenue 2 with the one at block 89 Circuit Road, the air quality in the latter is stuffier.

Hence, are such additions a need?

I am sure that there is a rigorous process to validate these suggestions before they are implemented on a case-by-case basis just like various policies. For example, means-testing is carried out for each patient to ascertain their financial ability before they can be given certain subsidies. There is also an income ceiling one must not reach before one can choose to purchase a HDB flat.

I hope that this evaluation process can be applied for future hawker centre upgrades across the island. If these result in hawkers leaving, the familiar faces of our hawkers are lost, creating a dent in our community togetherness. I find it a pity to not be able to catch up with my friends who prepare food I crave for on a weekly basis. Even if there was no communication, there is something special about them watching me grow up through my years of dining there. The reduced diversity of stalls is a relatively small problem, but the increment of food prices is not, considering the income group of those who live there. The importance of such upgrades must be carefully thought out and studied in greater detail, lest the adverse impacts outweigh the perceived benefits these “upgrades” bring.

DJ 小弟 29 Sep 2014

感情的事很难说。有时好端端的,不知为什么,却能放手。这就是梁文音在最新专辑《漫情歌》主打歌《爱其实很残忍》里的概念。也有人能碰到对的人,也许花很多时间才能有这种感觉,等等…… 但是不管怎样,这种感觉好难得。

就像杨丞琳在《想幸福的人》接近尾歌部分说:“我相信,当一个很想幸福的人,也必须是能够让人幸福的人。”如果你真的想要幸福,那你的另一半也一定要觉得自己是幸福的。是双方面的付出。小弟也要说明所谓的幸福不仅仅是你在言语、动作的表示,而是一种无法解释的心里的感觉。一个人能付出很多心思,但如果另一方,为了不切实际的理由、不符合逻辑的借口而无法接受,那那段感情也维持不了多久。

小弟在此安排的丁当的《好难得》。希望你们听了也会有所珍惜、感触。

All I wish is for another's voice to be in unison with mine.

Wednesday, September 10, 2014

10 Sep 2014

Now being more open to giving thanks, I just thanked someone who allowed me to go first at the water cooler! He reached first and he said 'welcome', upon my gratitude. This word was really heartening.

Acknowledge those who have been kind to you and let them feel good and pass it on!

#ellen #bekindtooneanother

Monday, September 8, 2014

Muay Thai lesson part 2

The second part focuses on elbows, uppercuts, push kick and another break lock.

For elbows, the hand motion is supposed to 'comb one's hair' or cut through the face diagonally to hit the opposite side. However, with the body motion constantly twisting, even a straight up elbow is supposed to hit the opponent on the other side instead. This needs practice. Also, the hand is supposed to open palm face down under the armpit so as to create a only one point of contact instead of a rubbing of the skin.

Uppercuts, are just a short twisting of the body. The motion is somewhat similar to an elbow, in a rather short, upward direction instead.

Push kicks are interesting. By raising a leg, then extending it and shortening it immediately, while leaning forwards or backwards to give greater power or stability, this is probably one of the simplest and most innate action.

Today's lock is when someone hugs my waist from behind. My left hand will grab his right wrist. Then my right hand from outside loop below his right arm past the elbow and grab my left wrist. Stick out the butt and then twist the body sharply by pivoting on my left leg 180 degrees. This will turn into an armbar or can be used to immobilize the person.

Happy to learn how to execute an armbar at last! I was gaping in awe and the word came out!

8 Sep 2014

Helped 2 NJC ladies find their way through NUS. They were really shocked that a stranger would extend help as if it were a normality. I'm here to help change that mindset.

#ellen #bekindtooneanother.

Saturday, September 6, 2014

6 Sep 2014

Helped a couple of tourists who was lost on deciphering the Circle Line direction to their destination.

#ellen #bekindtooneanother

Friday, September 5, 2014

5 Sep 2014

相信不同的对象有不同结果,我应该每一次恋爱都好像没受伤过,无限次恋爱都要像初恋执著。
虽然别太快认定不是你的,就不值得投入太多,一直期待并等待着对的人会欣赏我之前犯过的错。好奇妙的感觉!我想试一试!

All I wish is for another's voice to be in unison with mine.

Thursday, September 4, 2014

DJ 小弟 4 Sep 2014

读者来信写着:我以为我忘了你。当碰到你的朋友时,他问起我怎么认识他。但却不知怎么,偏偏我说不出你的名字。一直卡在喉咙,知道他认为我在隐藏着什么的。试着,在尝试。还是说不出来。那又怎么能说《若你碰到他》……。成了你的傀儡,一年两年(《妥协》),到现在,我不知不觉地把别人当成是你。都是你。一不小心,翻了你的面博。想要惊叹的,但即刻阻止。你会看到吗?你会在意吗?你会有反应吗?这些,因为曾经被你摇摆,我很肯定你的答案。
小弟今天就为安排以上歌曲,希望心情会好些。振作一点!

All I wish is for another's voice to be in unison with mine.

深心感触 July to Aug 2014

July 6 2014
原来一个人最脆弱的时候不是失去当中,而是生病时。 我开心的时候,你不在我身边分享我的快乐。 我尝试新东西的时候,你不在我身边指导,赶走我的忧虑。 我病时,你不在我身边问候我。 反正你也不可能做到的,我也能在这几个月好好的,那我还需要你吗?

July 25 2014
When I was young, I thought it should be mandatory for best friends to live close to each other. Then I would be close to all that matter. Good thing there is no such policy. Otherwise, when break ups happen, do I move house just to avoid you?

Aug 11 2014
我敢爱为什么不敢当

Aug 13 2014
OK, I know USP / Tembusu / Cinnamon / CAPT, all very good, yes. Yes. But I guess my choice oriented from the time I decided to not go VJC and chose TPJC instead. As much as I don't regret over JC, I believe this uni section will be more fulfilling in my sense, one I can 对得起我自己。

Aug 20 2014
沮丧。People can participate in this, that. Yes, I don't have the courage to go try something right out of my comfort zone myself. But are others any better? Aren't they going in pairs and groups as well? Yes, I don't have the financial ability to try expensive sports. I'm just a down-to-earth person, who years to learn all including those I have met with a glass ceiling. Neither do I have the ability to not study and achieve great results. Previous achievements are due to really tough and depressing hard work. My standing now is of worry. So in conclusion, I don't expose myself much, and neither do I seem to progress in the academic sector, the very base of what I can do. What does this make me now?

Aug 31 2014
非常伟大,坚强的女人。但是,受伤的人总是最最这样子。那些伤害别人的却十分逊色。

All I wish is for another's voice to be in unison with mine.

Wednesday, September 3, 2014

Muay Thai lesson!

It's such a great opportunity to be given the chance to learn this. I have to write the skills down otherwise I will forget.

Note the differences between boxing and Muay Thai

The stance is different. In Boxing, one faces 45 degrees to his opponent, and the rear (right) leg is almost behind the front leg. Muay Thai places the legs apart in a more horizontal direction.

Two, boxing closes the fists, whereas in Muay Thai, they are open as fingers are supposed to dig into the person's face. Hence, all jabs (left hand), are like a high-five, with a focus on the heel of the palm as point of impact.

Knees are straight forward with the twisting of arms and body an important part, and kicks are either using the front or ball of the foot.

When someone comes and puts arms around neck, eg strangling, put one arm over his arm of that side, and reach past his chin to the opposite shoulder and twist body. If doesn't work, do the same for the other arm, and twist.

If he bear hug around the waist, stick out butt, and open legs wider (by doing a small jump if necessary). Place arms from outside and lock his elbow between your body and your elbow. Both arms will interlock at a very low height below his arms. Twist body, and follow up with a knee or a kick.

And all the sounds that come out during the jabs and kicks become normal, and not awkward.

PGP 2014 100 minute mins min 

Sunday, August 31, 2014

Superficial image

Apparently, even in this 21st century, a senior told me that good looks will take you far. It is sad that I cannot be promoted based on my abilities, but was asked to do braces. My teeth is what my parents gave me. Does that mean I should go for plastic surgery too? Or is braces so common such that it has become a must? What about those who cannot afford it? They have no power to choose. Will they be discriminated against?

Monday, August 25, 2014

25 August 2014

Finally, I got the courage to thank someone for being kind. I believe this is essential for some as this will spur them to continue to do things that will warm people hearts.

It was a super crowded bus and this young man just spoke up in a few sentences "Excuse me, please move in, I would appreciate that a lot. Thank you." There was so much space on the bus, which was initially even impossible for me to board. I thanked him when he alighted.

#ellen #bekindtooneanother

Sunday, August 24, 2014

23 August 2014

My kind deed for today. There was this small alley where only one cyclist can pass at anytime. And I chose to wait and let the other person from the opposite direction pass first.
Don't take granted when people do that to you next time!

#ellen #bekindtooneanother

Thursday, August 21, 2014

21 August 2014

Simple things, like putting back the cutlery used to choose Yong Tau Foo items, is also a simple, yet taken for granted way to be kind to the next person ordering it. Thanks Min Er Mandy Wee!

#ellen #bekindtooneanother

Sunday, August 17, 2014

17 August 2014

Helped a China couple guide his car into a parking lot. He was really almost hitting cars on either side. Really, NS has proven, I can't drive, but guide extremely well.
And of course my mother thinks I'm at fault because I'm helping a stranger. A usual irony of getting scolded for helping.

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

12 August 2014

Helped a pair got off because they were lost sitting on a shuttle bus that drove past their MRT station a few minutes ago.

#ellen #bekindtooneanother

Wednesday, July 30, 2014

30 July 2014

Helped an elderly woman pick up her newspapers at City Hall MRT fare gate, as she kept dropping it.
举手之劳。But she thanked me a lot for it.

Let an elderly man cut my queue when boarding the escalator up the MRT; no one gave way.

#ellen #bekindtooneanother

Monday, July 14, 2014

14 July 2014

Helped a SAVH member through the labyrinth at Bunoa Vista MRT today!

#bekindtooneanother #ellen

Saturday, July 5, 2014

5 July 2014

Helped another pair of aunties with directions just because their destination is in my area of residence.

#bekindtooneanother #ellen

Friday, July 4, 2014

4 July 2014

A senior citizen who queued up behind me stood up and walked in front of me when the shuttle bus arrived. After the passengers alighted, he looked at me. I thought he was cutting queue yet he remarked that I should go first as I queued. And the shuttle bus uncle remarked I'm courteous to let the older man board first. The two of them started discussing about that.

Embarrassing as they talked quite loudly, but everyone was happy.
#bekindtooneanother #ellen

Monday, June 30, 2014

30 June 2014

Said thank you to a lady who gave seat to an elderly man whom did not give thanks. These good Samaritans need to be recognised more so as to encourage such behaviour.
‪#‎bekindtooneanother‬ ‪#‎ellen‬

Wednesday, June 18, 2014

18 June 2014


Walked with an elderly man, while he crossed the traffic light at a slow amble. With the empty road, I was so afraid, the cars will speed up. He thanked me for my assurance.

Sunday, June 15, 2014

Be Kind to One Another

Apr 192014
Angus Ng
 Guided a first time tourist on his transportation for the day on the MRT! Be kind to one another, do a good deed today! #ellen
Apr 242014
Angus Ng
 Opened my umbrella for all the passengers stopping at my bus-stop today the shelter them through the rain. Be inspired to be kind to one another! #ellen
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Apr 252014
Angus Ng
 Brought up a tray for the next patron of a stall at Koufu during lunch today. Though some people won't say thank you or even acknowledge your presence, it shouldn't stop us from doing nice things. Be kind to one another. #ellen









Apr 292014
Angus Ng
 Got a snail to safety, so it wouldn't get ridden over by cyclists or stepped by people. Be kind to one another. #ellen.




Apr 292014
Angus Ng
 Allowed a mother to sit with her daughter on her bus - rather than apart - , by exchanging a seat. Be kind to one another. #ellen




May 42014
Angus Ng
 Exchanged seats with a friendly couple on the bus and instantly became friends! Revive the kampung spirit! Be kind to one another. #ellen
May 102014
Angus Ng
 Returned a GNC VIP card despite my Singaporean personality of getting GNC products at a 20% discount! Be kind to one another. #ellen







May 132014
Angus Ng
 Picked up a medicine tablet after someone who has dropped it. Be kind to one another. #ellen




May 172014
Angus Ng
 I said 'thank you' to an elderly auntie cleaning around a Macdonalds area. She was so happy - she let out a sound of surprise, and her smile started my day off brightly. Be kind to one another. #ellen





May 172014
Angus Ng
 Wrote a positive feedback form, presented it to the outstanding and energetic server at a restaurant and a letter to the company. Don't be afraid to do it. Be a great customer, and inspire others to be so, and let more people serve you better too. Be kind to one another. #ellen




May 212014
Angus Ng
 Gave assurance and directions to a group of teenagers who are trying to navigate in my neighbourhood. Simple actions appreciated. 'Cool!' Be kind to one another. #ellen




Jun 82014
Angus Ng
 Always feels great by being a customer. I can choose to be nice to aggressive salespeople, and if they are nice, they would get a commendation letter. I hope the latest lady from Starhub would be pleasantly surprised soon. Be kind to one another. #ellen





Jun 112014
Angus Ng
 Opened a door to a delivery man pushing two trolleys bewildered at how to get in. 3 office ladies smiled with approval at me. I said 'Be kind to one another', and I hope this incident inspires them to pass the goodness on, as I had from Ellen. Be kind to one another. #ellen #bekindtooneanother






Jun 132014
Angus Ng
 I put my power in written English to for good use! Writing yet another commendation letter to Starhub! #ellen #bekindtooneanother




DJ 小弟 from Archived book

Jan 252012
Angus Ng
 今天,受到一位听众,俊杰,的留言。他说: 这几天,不知怎么地,我觉得非常孤独。在行为上也不经意地伤害别人。我没有恶意的。如果你被伤害,希望你能接受我的道歉。对不起。 他也希望他的朋友能联络他。他说了这一句我觉得很有道理:“如果朋友之间有一段时间忽然缺乏了话题,但这不表示不能在一次约会。” 我觉得如有诚意的话,那,以上都是多余的。惊喜——本人有长诗为我的一位好友做过。不需要他人很多时间,只需一颗真诚,坚决的心。 在此,俊杰想点的歌是张惠妹的《还有眼泪就好》。过后,我安排了梁文音的歌曲。我觉得俊杰也很想说这句话:《我不是你想像那么勇敢》。祝他能早日找回快乐!








Apr 272013
Angus Ng
 郑秀文这位天后,最也难以否认。以她的美妙声音,唱出一年又一年扣人心弦的歌曲。《不要惊动爱情》非常特别,因为话语乐坛上,又很少歌曲不谈到 “分手” 这两个字。让我们一起回味这首把一厢情愿的感情描述的这么清脆 (作词:高皓正)的经典。




Apr 302013
Angus Ng
 终于了解 容祖儿 的 《这就是爱吗》。 “历史”以来,我要的不是爱,而是永远有人鼓励、支持着我, 每时每刻在我身边, 让我知道我在他心目中有多重要, 会细心, 感觉我的情绪波动, 知道我在想什么。




Dec 20
2013
Angus Ng
 今天,小弟为您解释《分手后不要做朋友》的一些歌词。由 黄婷 作词, 梁文音 唱着 "你伤我,不算什么。反正我,绝不说,我多难过。” 刚听这段时,觉得有点不对劲。若我不快乐,却又不告诉你,那,我们之间怎能进步?你,又怎么知道我的感受、想法呢?但如果你曾经也像小弟一样,把自己关起来,毫无头绪地哭着 “为什么要为他做这么多?他只会伤我,不感激,不会让我幸福”,那你可能也领悟了。“绝不说” 这里指的是这些痛苦的场合,自责的时候。你试想想这些,你又告诉过别人吗? 现在,您重新唱起这首疗伤歌曲,会不会感触也较多了? 1月3日,梁文音《分手后不要做朋友》EP 上架!请支持!
Jan 292014
Angus Ng
 今天,小弟为您解释《最幸福的事》的一些歌词。由 马嵩惟 作词, 梁文音 唱着 "可惜爱不是,童话故事,不能够永远,依赖着王子”。掠过简单的词曲,真的会忽略词中带有别的意思。我们往往被电视剧、偶像剧影响,以为这么做会感动他或她、这么做会使他或她有什么样的回复。很遗憾,现实不是故事。下半词也很真实。即使两人在一起,两人都有自己的私生活,两人都定期需要时间静一静,不能每一件小事缠着另一半。














Feb 252014
Angus Ng
 “除了你之外的依赖,还有谁能叫我勇敢” K 歌:徐佳莹作词、演唱的《失落沙洲》。若一个人陷入窘境,会变自卑、没信心、什么都怕、什么都觉得自己错。但,一有了一个能够完完全全的接受作者,作者才能勇敢,用自己能站立的双脚应付每一件事。这,真的很奇妙。




Jun 142014
Angus Ng
 有一段时间没有听到我的声音了。今天,小弟回到空中和你一起重温刘力扬的《寂寞光年》。 随着歌曲的高潮 “把怀抱借给我 是不是就不再颤抖”,小弟觉得最有意义。因为前情人回来,再一次爱她,作者不一定会心定,会有以前的安全感。时间久了,作者会认清他们之间是不管多次复合,是不可能有结果。时间久了,感觉淡了。也许感动还在,也许有其他朋友更好,甚至宁愿一个人孤单也不要再受伤,即使旧情人回来,作者会勇敢地拒绝。小弟认为这是一个很勇敢的行为。知道没有用,却懂得自爱,不再伤害自己和他人。这理所当然的行为有多少人能这么做?








First one ... lost and second one and third one. All from Archived book

Ctrl+F year oR Third one.
Jun 82009
Angus Ng
 我这么辛苦,忙完了一天又一天,希望能忘记它,但最后,到底得到了什么?我忙的真正目的又是什么?我真的好累,好累。
Jun 92009
Angus Ng
 你和我十指緊扣, 默寫前奏, 可是那然後呢?
Jun 92009
Angus Ng
 浪费我上网的时间,等它。

All I wish is for another's voice to be in unison with mine.


Jun 152009
Angus Ng
 能被人爱是幸福的的事,被爱幸不幸福只有被爱的人才知道;但是要幸福不一定要被爱。
Jun 162009
Angus Ng
 什么不想做,什么不想想。。。。。。


Jun 172009
Angus Ng
 漫长的寂寞淹没我的难过 我的世界是零下的沙漠 其实我也想要拥抱的温柔

Jun 212009
Angus Ng
 Shut UP! I HATE YOU!

Jun 232009
Angus Ng
 I guess I'm sorry

Jul 192009
Angus Ng
 I'm sorry, my Body. I need to calm myself down. I don't need people to see my notebook filled with the F words. and yeah, sorry to the person that I just snapped at.

Jul 252009
Angus Ng
 后退其实是为了靠近,但退无可退时,我是靠近了你?还是失去自己?


Aug 12009
Angus Ng
 放弃。松口气。心里不在沉重了。删掉、丢掉、清空了烦恼。我现在很好, 恨不再疯, 泪不再掉,心不跑,可以重新起跑。 一定会有一个人,一段新的美好。谢谢。

Aug 22009
Angus Ng
 第三天的新开始。期待。等待。
Aug 72009
Angus Ng
 还以为过去了。但,当经过的滋味是一样时,应该是时间重新检讨自己。

Aug 262009
Angus Ng
 疲惫藏着痛苦。但,应该从中找出欢笑。

Sep 12009
Angus Ng
 想做自己。

Sep 62009
Angus Ng
 若你碰到他,请告诉他,我在等他。

Sep 152009
Angus Ng
 做人,首先要画清楚那条黑线。

Sep 202009
Angus Ng
 每一颗跳动的心,都有去爱与被爱的权利。

Sep 242009
Angus Ng
 我不是你想像那么坚强
Sep 252009
Angus Ng
 从此以后又要不知所措。藏在脑海的一旁,转了一圈又回到开始。

Oct 22009
Angus Ng
 我多么希望这是一场梦—一场噩梦。可是,对于这级的痛苦,我是无法原谅的。所以,我再也不要活在那个虚拟的世界里。
Oct 52009
Angus Ng
 我也想说也许能重来我却还是沉默。

Oct 82009
Angus Ng
 掌声是人对他人的敬意。Those heartless brats do not deserve my respect.

Oct 162009
Angus Ng
 I shouldn't have gone school yesterdday - JUST FORGET ABOUT IT ALREADY!!!

Oct 172009
Angus Ng
 Tip: to avoid getting hurt, set your expectations to 0.

Oct 312009
Angus Ng
 我不想再和他扯上任何关系。因为当戏结束时,我一定又是受害者;他永远是天下的大好人。既然配角换不了,我已决定提早跳下台,已把假发抛在一旁,已阁下戏服,已甩掉记忆。还没踏出剧场,泪水已把化装从掉了,已化为乌有。

Dec 72009
Angus Ng
 我不是你想像,总是扮演坚强。多想让你知道我也要个伴。
Dec 82009
Angus Ng
 过去的伤痕,掩饰就好了。现在的伤痛,哭过就好了。
Jan 142010
Angus Ng
 今晚,带我走吧。我答应你,我这次一去再也不会回头。
Feb 272010
Angus Ng
 心里有很多话想说,但说不出来。那时的你让我幸福百分百。你知道我依赖多不想say goodbye,但还是期待某一天我和你笑得更灿烂。
Mar 42010
Angus Ng
 不知道这句话重复的多少遍。“眼前的人和他不是一样的人,因此前者应该不会伤害我。他会关心我。他会照顾我。我会变快乐的。我会是幸福的。 但是,在伤口还没痊愈之前,又被一把刀割过。 现在,剩下的只有一条乌黑的疤痕。 虽然今天你说的话深深的触动我的心,但是我还会把双手稳稳地、紧紧地,盖住伤口,坚持不让它再一次受到任何伤害。因为,我不想再一次亲身体验愤怒、失去、遗憾。既然我已习惯孤独地活在这个失落沙洲,就不要三分钟热度,让我暂时开心一下,然后狠狠地把我仍回那个孤僻的荒岛上。 总的来说,我希望一句话能帮我解释一切。 对不起。
May 32010
Angus Ng
 有时候, 一个问候足以让我觉得温温的。谢谢!
May 302010
Angus Ng
 我不想忘记你,就算可以,我宁可记得所有伤心。
Jun 142010
Angus Ng
 Some people are like things. No matter how good they are, they are insignificant, and can be flicked away. As are certain events.
Jun 232010
Angus Ng
 说不出来的,会唱出来。

Jul 15
2010
Angus Ng
 但没有人爱我的时候,你,在哪里?
Jul 242010
Angus Ng
 不要让现在带你回过去。
Aug 122010
Angus Ng
 18月后,我承认那段日子隐藏的现实还没离我而去。我真的很需要你一直陪在我身旁......

Sep 22010
Angus Ng
 我要被爱。

Oct 262010
Angus Ng
 如果爆裂,那不如将我今天毁灭。
Nov 42010
Angus Ng
 没有你会是怎样 全世界__ __ 黑暗
Nov 222010
Angus Ng
 我用寂寞来惩罚我,看着你走过。
May 132011
Angus Ng
 现在有人和我分享他的喜悦,我感到自己的存在不再是“一个人”罢了。要是你以前能这么做
May 202011
Angus Ng
 我真的不知道伤口竟然可以痊愈的。真好。
Jun 82011
Angus Ng
 你怎么忍心让我为了你哭泣
Jul 12011
Angus Ng
 是我说过分手以后要祝福大家 怎么听到你的喜讯我忽然静下 我也失去继续伪装朋友的资格 我竟然希望他不够好那就好了 这个我还值得谁爱吗
Jul 52011
Angus Ng
 我是真的那么不值得你的爱吗?
Jul 132011
Angus Ng
 这一次不想 为别人而活
Jul 152011
Angus Ng
 如果你确定有人会爱你,那你应该竭尽所能去争取那份爱。
Aug 292011
Angus Ng
 I guess that's it right? As usual. 为什么每一次都要落成这一个地步?

Sep 132011
Angus Ng
 想念你,还记得那个春天吗?
Oct 102011
Angus Ng
 不值得流的眼泪,别让它流。他什么都没做到。那前年不停息的泪水是值得的。
Oct 122011
Angus Ng
 谢谢你的直接,让我了解你真正的意思。至少走得比你早,也许是这次不幸中的大幸。
Oct 222011
Angus Ng
 梁文音说过:幸福很难,我相信只要我们够努力,沿途摇啊晃啊也都是美景。给遇到在感情出现问题的朋友们,如果只是为了一个小挫折而想要把以前的美好回忆给忘了,也许是不值得的。
Nov 272011
Angus Ng
 那一声“拒绝”,也许对他人有一阵更伤人的痛楚。

Dec 24, 2011 
 睡了一晚上后,如果心里还有些伤痕,这首歌可能会有帮助。像梁文音说以后的新歌不会是悲伤的,我们也要开心的活下去!那些害过我们的人,就把他们忘了吧!现在的我开朗多了,要积极面对 2012!大家加油!

Jan 262012
Angus Ng
 用起伏的背影挡住哭泣的心 有些故事不必说给每个人

Mar 242012
Angus Ng
 不是爱不起,只是伤不起 不知为何又历史重演 眼看本来不会变,怎么会一夜之内 整个世界好像完全变了... ... 网上对话已成特权,只是不欢而散
May 32012
Angus Ng
 伟轩!生日快乐!Time passes fast when we are busy. I am enlisting on Tuesday already! 6 months since I last met you and hopefully only another 6 months to the next! Juay Weixuan
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May 42012
Angus Ng
 "他不是忘记你,就是你不重要。" 那我就以同样的方式对他说:“你对我从此不重要,我也会把你换掉。”

THIRD ONE.

Aug 122012
Angus Ng
 两个月。两个月,应该足够吧。对他来说,也许不会。一半的我决定不在乎他,不再爱也不再等待。另一半却,恰好相反。因为,他让我感觉他最了解我,眼神交错,话都不用说。无法相信,当时那么确定他是知己,怎么两年就结束了?若你刚好读过,请让我们回到最初。寂寞寂寞太久,不好。

Oct 142012
Angus Ng
 怎么变成,我们之间没有话题?这个180度的转变,能再次的发生吗?

Dec 282012
Angus Ng
 我深信两人之间一定有很多的恨。如果他们之间没有爱,那一方一定会厌恨另一人。

Jan 62013
Angus Ng
 原谅我没有去为你做我心里想要做的事,因为我实在不忍心目睹以后为你哭泣的我。

Jan 10, 2013
不懂你是不是和我一样,要告别现在的情况呢?正在去的地方,是不是令你觉得忐忑不安?若是的话,就和我听一下 五月天 的 《诺亚方舟》。
Feb 142013
Angus Ng
 矜持. Do you know what it means? Asking you to go away is what I want objectively. But how can I really want that?
Feb 232013
Angus Ng
 一个开始,原来是两个的启程。一个已结束,但请让另一个继续。
Feb 272013
Angus Ng
 为什么我希望你陪我做一件事你能拒绝,但在同一个时间其他人邀你,你却片刻答应。一样的事,一样的时间、地点,不同人,不同反应。这,是什么意思?你回答我!

Mar 32013
Angus Ng
 如果我能睡得安心,你能吗?

Mar 102013
Angus Ng
 一旦两人之间引发了浓厚的感情,那段热情,是永远忘不掉的,因为它会变成伤痕。
Mar 152013
Angus Ng
 如果连说再见的勇气都没有,那以后没有你,我,怎么生存下去?
Mar 282013
Angus Ng
 2 extra days. No need for hopes as bleeding has already started.
Apr 62013
Angus Ng
 I'm afraid of being nice to you, because when it all ends, I will berate myself why am I so nice to you for every particular incident. And the worst part is, you never told me you appreciated it.

Apr 132013
Angus Ng
 A random tune from long ago: 我绝不能失去你 你手心 你声音 还占领我的心 怎能忘记 想你就像是呼吸 From the past to the present Yet still so applicable Who still remembers this?
Apr 142013
Angus Ng
 Truth and trust explicitly stated. “我答应你,以后我们不会再有事情瞒着对方,所以不管怎样,你都要相信我,好吗?” —— 公主小妹
Apr 272013
Angus Ng
 如果真的没有回应,何必把它当成回忆收起来?我不会再这么做了。
May 32013
Angus Ng
 为什么我寂寞只想要你陪, 为什么我难过只肯让你安慰?
May 52013
Angus Ng
 你是此生最美的风景 让我心碎却如此着迷 你是此生最美的风景 才令我至今一再想起
May 82013
Angus Ng
 怎么叫做成就?金钱?名誉?也许如果能达成我应有的东西,那已足够了。
May 262013
Angus Ng
 He'll never see you cry Pretends he doesn't know, that he's the reason why
May 272013
Angus Ng
 双性恋、同性恋、异性恋,你到底要我说什么? 我喜欢男生、女生,都可以。 原来你对爱情的定义这么狭窄! 谁跟你复杂啊?谁跟你试验啊? 我不过只是一个单纯想要幸福的人而已! 可以吗?
Jun 152013
Angus Ng
 笑着面对今天的挑战。回头望去,我记得每时每刻不觉得辛苦。对了,我很久没有这么真实地笑、笑这么久了……
Jul 82013
Angus Ng
 小弟昨天好勇敢,决定放弃两个人。支持我哦!~ # 至少走得比你早 # 原来爱情这么伤

Jul 222013
Angus Ng
 Even a 5 year old stranger can ask me 'why are you wearing 2 watches?'. How come a '20 year old' 'friend who knows so much about me and vice versa' cannot even let me know 'what he thinks' ?
Aug 32013
Angus Ng
 我们都需要勇气,来面对流言蜚语。若你能了解,那也许这不是个绊脚石。
Sep 272013
Angus Ng
 如果我告诉你爱情 能给的幸福只有短暂的,那你还会不会去爱?
Oct 202013
Angus Ng
 你 今天 要我哭几次?
Dec 12013
Angus Ng
 I cannot accept people who do not care about me as a friend. So despite all the wonderful memories shared last time, 勇敢让对方自由, good bye.
Dec 72013
Angus Ng
 如果我和你同行,我是否在逆行?
Dec 82013
Angus Ng
 对于那些做过对不起我的朋友,想帮他们,但曾经有人说过:不要报酬,但不需要对他好。所以,不需要那么惭愧!他也有可能不珍惜你帮忙,嫌你烦都有可能!
Dec 112013
Angus Ng
 最痛的不是你走远了, 是我又把我说成我们.
Dec 122013
Angus Ng
 你内疚、难受,别告诉我。免得我,又搞错,当作承诺。反正你一切都没关心过。
Dec 15 2013
 你知道吗?我非常讨厌你。讨厌你为什么这么容易影响我的心情。
Dec 162013
Angus Ng
 以为快乐,只能到此为止。对,“以为”,因为真的还会有人能让我义无反顾。
Dec 192013
Angus Ng
 不要蹉跎 不要联络 就让我安安静静走完以后!
Dec 192013
Angus Ng
 李玟 真的好厉害!《能不能》完整的现实了她的唱功!
Dec 232013
Angus Ng
 不管是落叶,不管是阴天,天灰永远会变晴天。 你会找我吗?
Dec 272013
Angus Ng
 真正透透被人狠狠地伤害过,才真正了解原来是自己被自己绑架。
Dec 272013
Angus Ng
 明明说好是两个人一起去的旅行, 怎么剩下我一个人欣赏孤寂
Dec 282013
Angus Ng
 如果他总为别人撑伞 你何苦非为他等在雨中
Dec 312013
Angus Ng
 想继续往前进,但有伤不起,不想一个人孤独的承受,你知不知道?
Jan 12014
Angus Ng
 放下电话后,不需要后悔没和他受这个、没告诉他那个。因为要 ‘适可而止’。在还能控制自己的情况下,就狠绝地挂上电话。
Jan 282014
Angus Ng
 经过你,我认识了孤独,也和不满足做为朋友。
Feb 5
2014
Angus Ng
 我每次想陪你,不是因为我无所事事,是因为没有东西比你更重要。

Feb 82014
Angus Ng
 明明你也很爱我 没理由爱不到结果 只是你还很懦弱 我这么坚持 有什么用
Feb 252014
Angus Ng
 好勇敢!去了牙医一趟。非常怕,但因为曾有你,我才找到勇敢。总算放心了。
Feb 262014
Angus Ng
 你花费心思改变了我,我为你而改变,但你现在说走就走?那,那无数夜晚是为了什么?为了代替你的下一个人?谁要你伟大? 就算下一个人比你好,我还是要你!
Feb 272014
Angus Ng
 你给我的一切是一场美得不现实的美梦。一个被受困在当中的梦。喧闹是自己醒过来,认清现实。累了,却沦回到那不切实际的梦。
Mar 42014
Angus Ng
 如果我有精力想不该想的人,那我一定有能力去做该做的东西。振作!争气!
Mar 62014
Angus Ng
 我没有爱着爱着就永远的幸运。回头一看,错过的只是更多泪水,许多伤感,不少自责,繁多吵架。向新目标前进!
Mar 152014
Angus Ng
 I guess it's lucky I didn't spend so much time with you, otherwise, I would have been hurt by you and can't even be friends with you. Not that I would now.
Mar 152014
Angus Ng
 Thanks for saying the truth, so I know how bad you truly are to me.


原谅我没有去为你做我心里想要做的事,因为我实在不忍心目睹以后为你哭泣的我。

我这么辛苦,忙完了一天又一天,希望能忘记它,但最后,到底得到了什么?我忙的真正目的又是什么?我真的好累,好累。

能被人爱是幸福的的事,被爱幸不幸福只有被爱的人才知道;但是要幸福不一定要被爱。

经过你,我认识了孤独,也和不满足做为朋友。

还以为过去了。但,当经过的滋味是一样时,应该是时间重新检讨自己。

我每次想陪你,不是因为我无所事事,是因为没有东西比你更重要。

只是你还很懦弱 我这么坚持 有什么用

疲惫藏着痛苦。但,应该从中找出欢笑。

我多么希望这是一场梦—一场噩梦。可是,对于这级的痛苦,我是无法原谅的。所以,我再也不要活在那个虚拟的世界里。

我不想再和他扯上任何关系。因为当戏结束时,我一定又是受害者;他永远是天下的大好人。既然配角换不了,我已决定提早跳下台,已把假发抛在一旁,已阁下戏服,已甩掉记忆。还没踏出剧场,泪水已把化装从掉了,已化为乌有。

过去的伤痕,掩饰就好了。现在的伤痛,哭过就好了。’’
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